Originally Posted by
Iron Lizard
Different situation but somehow sounds familiar. I have a friend living in a dilapidated trailer 18 miles out of town in BFE and mean like I need a 4x4 to get out there. He has no transportation and super sketchy phone and internet . He refuses to get any sort of job. Anything at all would help him, but of course he's full of excuses, always a chicken and the egg sort of thing.
"I can't get a job because I need this or that and I can't get this or that because I don't have a job." He wants to do what I do, sell on Ebay and Etsy. Predictably he never gets off his ass to try. Instead he bugs me to sell his stuff like I'm some sort of money making genie. Every Wednesday he calls begging for a ride to the local food bank at which point I realize I'm just enabling him. He pays no rent and has few bills. Combine that with no motivation I don't think he is every going to get out of that place. It's depressing telling a friend I've watched sink slow to go away because they've become a parasite but at this point I'm gonna have to shoot Old Yeller.